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Serial Daters: Signs Your Date Doesn’t Actually Care About You
The thrill of the chase, along with the opportunities provided by online dating apps, means serial daters are everywhere and they can often be tricky to spot. Thankfully Australian relationship expert and millionaire matchmaker Louanne Ward has posted a video on Facebook to flag up the signs to watch out for in a potential partner. She said: "Your communication can last for hours which is really lovely when you're in the midst of meeting somebody you really like but how long are these text messages going on for before the meeting takes place? Well, according to Louanne, too much admiration could be a major sign they are trying to fast forward the process of getting to know you without putting in the long term ground work. She said serial daters will often struggle to get past the three week mark because the excitement of dating someone new has worn off by then, so just remember — slow and steady wins the race. She says: "They tell you things that you long to hear, they claim they haven't felt this way in such a long time and you're the one they've been looking for… and this all happens in a short space of time. She says: "They start back-pedalling really fast. They pull the rug from underneath you. Louanne says: "You're attached to the outcome of the match, giving you an ego boost when you get the match - but if you don't, it starts to affect your self-esteem and you can find yourself on a roller coaster of highs and lows.
You met a great person and had a fantastic first date. Your date might not put in much effort. It will be hard to pin him or her down for a date, and when you do finally meet up, things will seem a little off. He or she might not put much effort into looking nice and will keep conversations at a surface level. Your date might also be easily distracted by text messages and phone calls during your time together.
The serial dater acts like dating is his job. Apparently online dating sites are chock full of these peeps. I wouldn't know; I was too busy seeking these guys out in real life. First word of advice: Steer clear of men with playing card ties and exposed hundreds in his shirt pocket. Serial daters are never ready to settle down. They like the chase, and once they have you in their web or bed , then BAM, they're out like proverbial trout.
6 Signs He's a Serial Dater
Top definition. One who engages in the process of systematically dating an obscene amount people in short span of time. This definition encompasses but is not limited to internet dating, bar dating, long distance flirtations , phone service dating, blind dating, expiration dating , match making, one night stands, friends with benefits, and personal ad surfing.