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5 Things To Remember When You're Freaking Out About Your SO's Sexual History
We all have a dating history. Some of us are monogamous and have been in a handful of relationships , while others may have had various partners for shorter lengths of time or a history of one-night stands. As someone who has a varied sexual history , I know firsthand how difficult it can be to divulge your past with a new partner. But the truth is, it's unfair to have someone's past impact their present. Our 20s are a time where we evolve, experiment and grow.
However, one of my friends introduced me to a friend of his, and we really hit it off. I really want to get behind that and trust him, but am wondering how I am going to get past this, you know? In a gay culture where it can be tremendously difficult to find a compatible partner, count yourself fortunate to have found someone whom you share so much in common with and have a mutual attraction and desire for a committed relationship. What an exciting time for you, bask in the glow of it all and avoid taking this opportunity for granted! People can and do change and having met you may be all the incentive and motivation that he needs to embrace a monogamous lifestyle, so be very cautious about projecting his past onto the present. The key to any relationship in building trust is shared experiences and time. Observe his actions and the choices he makes in all the various situations you find yourselves in as you date and develop a relationship.
I assume you mean a woman who is currently having sex with multiple men. It is dumb for a man or woman to date anyone who is promiscuous. Such a person is not a long-term relationship prospect, certainly not marriage material. Generally they will have had tumultuous relationships with their fathers, and not be able to trust or deeply attach to whoever they are dating. A woman who is promiscuous is trying to not be emotionally attached to individual men. Promiscuity is not natural for women.
Thoughts on dating a girl with a promiscuous past. Ok, so you meet a girl who has a lot going for her, and you have great chemistry Constant laughing, great sex, connect on many levels.. Now during some of these laugh sessions, she slips up and starts telling stories about random sexual encounters. Sleeping with her doctor, a guy from the gym, a guy she DIDNT like from online dating at the park after dinner, a customer that came into her store, etc..